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The Anxious

In resistance, the uncertain people would wait for negative results in episodes of anger. This belief, pessimist is derived from the lack of confidence that has of their actions (Carmelley & Janoff-Bulman, mentioned in Mikulincer, M. 1998a). The anxious-ambivalent people, would show to major propensity the wrath that the safe people. The evitativas people, undergo frequent and intense episodes of anger, and their repressive style and its tendency a to appear of a positive way could take to these people to deny any propensity to the wrath. In relation to the form to undergo the wrath, the safe people once angered would think about solving the situation and to improve the quality of the relation (I put constructive), express their anger of controlled way and without many signals of hostility, the anxious-ambivalent experience of anger of the evitativo style and people, would be characterized by destructive goals, becoming unaccustomed answers and wild short whiles of hostile anger, suffering pain and other negative emotions. (Mikulincer, M. 1998 a).

DISCUSSION One comments, that the theory of the attachment, especially the proposal by Bowlby, has been very useful, since it has generated diverse investigations and studies in varied aspects of the human behavior, which corresponds to which the social psychologists consider like a good theory, that is to say, to guide and to stimulate the investigation, generating diverse hypotheses to verify them. The theory is indicated in addition, that it seems quite useful, since it allows to know, to deduce from the knowledge of the style of attachment of a person, many of its personal characteristics that are not so evident. Nevertheless, the so strict or rigid classifications cannot be considered of way, although they represent a reference frame, do not determine a specific behavior, therefore, they are not always absolute predictions. This is more reflected in many studies that give account of the different forms to behave, often independent of the style of attachment and related to a situation or specific scope, as it happens in the interpersonal area and of the personality. Really, it sorprndase as you related to the attachment are and avoids to be employee of him, maintains a significant distance so that it does not harm it, does not affect it.